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Self reflection tool to overcome Self-criticism
A range of research over the last few years has looked at athletes and musicians, and how self-criticism affected their motivation and their ability to reach their goals. Results showed the following:
- Those who were more self-critical were less likely to be able to motivate themselves, and also less likely to reach their goals, then those who treated themselves with more compassion.
- Researchers concluded that self-criticism is a risk factor in the pursuit of personal goals, and increased risk of setbacks along the way.
Overcoming negative self-criticism takes time and consistent practice. However, once you learn how to silence the negative words of your inner conscious, you can begin to live your best life.
In a table or mind map, follow the following steps.
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- Identify your inner-critic that stops you doing something
- Be honest with yourself
- Develop positive actions, Encourage yourself and/or Ask for help.